Being in your 20s.

Being in your 20s.

Yes, there’s a lot of articles on Thought Catalogue about being 20. Most of those articles are lists including titles such as “23 things to do before you get married at 23.” Truth is, everyone is panicking. Everyone is unsure. But everyone will look back at this time as some of the best years of their life, so…

Calm Down and Enjoy. You’re a work in progress. A college degree is not a completion certificate.

If I had to give you ONE piece of advice…

Always remember other people’s name. It’s one of the secrets of success from Dale Carnegie’s book How to Win Friends and Influence People. He writes, “Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.” I could not have chosen better wording to express the importance of remembering someone’s name. Although published in 1936, this rule is still applicable, if not more important in today’s technology-mediated communication. Sometimes we forget how powerful first impressions are when interacting with someone face-to-face. It shows respect because there’s nothing worse than saying “hey you”. And remembering the other persons name will improve your social, business, and personal life – it is the one golden rule to live by. There are memory tricks such as impressions, repetitions, and associations; just find a method that is suitable to your thinking process. No one said it would be easy, I’m just saying it’s going to be worth it.